I read this today and it really hit home with me. I've been around far too many people in this life who care way too much about winning and always having to defeat someone or take them down just so they can get ahead. In my opinion, that is no way to live.
"The purpose of life is not to win. The purpose of
life is to grow and to share. When you come to look back on all that you
have done in life, you will get more satisfaction from the pleasure you
have brought into other people's lives than you will from the time that
you outdid and defeated them."
Harold Kushner
Rabbi and Author
Rabbi and Author